 A wonderfully-written perspective on God, life and suffering |
| Review Date: July 7, 2000 |
| Reviewer: J. Lizzi, Costa Mesa, CA |
| In a time when so many people are striving for an explanation of why their lives turn out a certain way, or why things (good or bad) happen to them, the expressions "it's all part of God's plan," "everything happens for the best," or "it just wasn't meant to be," and so on, have became a little tiresome. In "When Bad Things Happen to Good People," Rabbi Harold S. Kushner offers a refreshing point of view that differs from those who think everything occurs on earth because God wants it that way, and at the same time provides a surprising comfort in the fact that events actually can, and do, take place for no reason at all. I read the original version of this book in the early 80's (several times since), and what struck me was that Rabbi Kushner was able to reconcile a common Judeo-Christian view of God and causality with a perspective of life that holds a place for randomness and happenstance. Yes! Things happen in life that God has nothing to do with, and there is a way to find peace in accepting this. For those who enjoy contemplating and discussing the purpose of life, faith, and good & bad, you MUST read this book . . . then set aside some more time for thought and conversation. If you've ever experienced the untimely loss of a loved one, or been through any traumatizing life experience, get this book. It is personal, thought-provoking, well-written, and very easy to understand. I am certain you will find comfort. If you're just simply interested in learing about God and the meaning of things in your life from a wonderful man and a great writer, get this book. Without intending to write a best-seller (read his Preface), Rabbi Kushner was able to put into words what I had been trying to figure out (despite loads of "help" from others) concerning God, how we should relate to Him, and what to do about all the things that happen to us during our lives. This book is important; I give it my highest recommendation. |
INSPIRING!!! EYE-OPENING!!! INSIGHTFUL!!!
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| Review Date: August 17, 1999 |
| Reviewer: K. Trinque, |
| I just finished reading this book by Rabbi Kushner. It was an easy book to read and understand. I recently experienced the loss of my beloved brother. He was 36 years old and a murder victim. I am a practicing Catholic and I never questioned God. However, I found myself wondering why this had to happen to us. My brother was just an innocent bystander. A victim of being at that wrong place at the wrong time. Rabbi Kushner's book opened my eyes. His book offered me comfort and let me understand my faith a little better. I highly recommend this book to all who question God. If you find yourself asking, "How could there be a God when bad things happen to good people?" get this book ASAP!! Rabbi Kushner offers a logical and intelligent answer to this question. He makes sense. If you think you are not a religious person this book will change that. I am passing this book onto my mother. I know this will bring her comfort. Thank you Rabbi Kushner for this wonderful insightful book. It has helped me with my grieving! GOD BLESS YOU!! |
A Classic of profound knowledge...
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| Review Date: December 27, 2002 |
| Reviewer: Chris Peters, Austin, Texas |
| When I faced incredible loss a few years ago, I was amazed at the insensitive words my so-called friends offered in their "compassion", words that cut me right to the bone of my soul. It seemed that my grief was a burden for many. I painfully watched many of my closest friends distance themselves from me and even resent me for the tragedy and emotion that I had no control over. I questioned my feelings, my thoughts, and even my faith. This book is a comfort for all people who have been forced to swallow such stupid sentiments in their times of grief and loss. It is an exploration of how we comfort each other in such terrifying times, and the dumb mistakes we make. Most of these sentiments wax on about God, why He created a world in which such pain exists: Is this all part of a greater good, a higher order? Is God testing you, expanding your soul for your own good? Has He taken your loved ones to a better place? This book gets right to the heart of the matter, that people in fact say such things as disguised justification for their own lack of understanding. They say things in defense of God to keep their world in order and the senseless tragedy in your life out of theirs. For example, someone might tell you, "God gave this grief to you as a test, because He loved you so very much, and knew you would become a better person for it," (to which the author replies, "If only I had been a weaker person, my daughter would still be alive.") And yet, author Harold Kushner weaves this with a deep exploration of God and how He helps us and loves us. This is no cheap excuse for shallow religion. The knowledge Kushner shares has obviously been earned through incredible personal pain. You will never feel like some therapist is philosophizing about some subject they know nothing about - this is the Real Deal. Kushner makes no apologies or defense for his anger and pain, and fearlessly questions the ways we comfort each other, and God Himself. Having lost my own faith for a time, I found every word in this book deeply satisfying, the logic pure. Strong recommendation for anyone with deep pain in their life. |
Very Helpful In Times Of Trouble
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| Review Date: October 11, 2005 |
| Reviewer: Susan R. Cakars, San Pablo, CA United States |
I had heard about this book and had looked at it, but I didn't read it until 2003 when I was disagnosed with cancer. This book really helped me deal with the diagnosis and treatment. I've been recommending this book ever since then. I gave a copy to a friend of mine whose husband died of cancer and now I am sending it to my niece & her husband, who has cancer.
This book has a good philosophy. Sometimes things happen for no reason. God is not sitting in heaven sending us bad things. God loves us and cares about us when bad things happen.
Rabbi Kushner says that when bad things happen, we'll ask, "God, why did you let this happen to me?" when a better response is to say, "God, help me with this".
This book helps the reader to remember that when we are dealing with any type of loss, e.g., loss of a loved one, loss of health, loss of home, God loves us and will help us deal with our loss. |
Still amazingly relevant!
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| Review Date: September 11, 2006 |
| Reviewer: Blaine Greenfield, Belle Meade, NJ |
Heard the taped version of WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO
GOOD PEOPLE by Harold Kushner, a Jewish rabbi . . . although
written some 25 years ago, it is still amazingly relevant . . . and, in
fact, it was reissued in 2001 with a new preface by the author.
Kushner originally wrote the book when faced with his own
child's fatal illness . . . it deals with death and, also, with
other situations where evil enters our life . . . though it gives
no easy answers, WHEN BAD THINGS got me thinking about
with this one particular bit of advice . . . he urges people not to
ask why all the time, but instead ask this question: What can
I do now?
What Kushner has to say applies to people of all religious
faiths . . . I urge you to get a copy of this short book . . . like
me, you'll want to go through it more than once.
There were many worthwhile tidbits; among them:
* God never gives you more than you can bear.
* We can't make sense of God's thoughts by saying it is God's will.
* Things of nature don't make exceptions for good people.
* We suffer because we misuse our power to choose.
* God intervenes when in a tragedy, he takes ordinary people
and has them behave in an extraordinary way.
* If you know somebody who has been hurt, reach out to him
or her.
* People don't want theology, they want reassurance.
* When we most need it, God gives us more strength.
* You have no control of the past. You have a lot of control over
the future.
And, lastly, this one:
God has given us the tools to live meaningfully in an unfair and
unpredictable world.
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